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Reclaiming Self-Control — 3/11/2025 10:00 AM
Dr. Trevin Wax takes a close look at self-control as a key distinctive and an indispensable characteristic on the road to godliness. His text is Titus 2:6-8. Dr. Wax serves as Vice President of Research and Resource Development at the North American Mission Board.
Notes
Living with Self-Control: A Call to Young Men
In today’s world, we are constantly surrounded by distractions that undermine our ability to live disciplined, godly lives. The culture pushes self-expression, indulgence, and instant gratification, leaving little room for self-control. But as Christians, we are called to stand out in a world full of temptation and complacency. Titus 2:6-8 speaks directly to the importance of self-control, especially for young men, and challenges us to live with purpose and integrity.
Key Points from Titus 2:6-8
Self-Control as a Foundation for Godliness
Paul writes that young men are to be "sensible" or self-controlled, and that self-control is vital for godliness. Without it, we cannot pursue Christ’s calling on our lives. Self-control enables us to love deeply, making selfless decisions even when it’s hard. True love costs us something — it requires us to push past laziness, selfishness, and distraction.
Encouragement in a Culture of Distraction
Our world is saturated with distractions like technology, social media, entertainment, and more — all designed to keep us chained to our desires and impulses. Paul reminds us that we need people around us who will encourage and challenge us to live with self-control. Encouragement is more than a pep talk — it’s about reminding one another that we were made for more than what the world offers. As believers, we are called to pursue higher purposes, even when it’s difficult.
Exemplifying Self-Control
Paul’s call to young men is not just to learn self-control but to live it out in a way that others can see. Self-control isn’t just about avoiding bad habits — it’s about forming positive patterns that reflect Christ. How we manage our time, our anger, our relationships, and our appetites should be an example to others. Whether it’s choosing to read your Bible before grabbing your phone in the morning or resisting the urge to gossip, our lives should model the discipline that comes from a love for Christ.
Self-Control in the Service of Love
Ultimately, self-control isn’t about self-mastery for its own sake. It’s about spirit mastery — being controlled by Christ for the sake of others. The Bible shows us that self-control is an expression of our love for God and others. When we are self-controlled, we reflect Christ’s love, which was demonstrated perfectly on the cross.
Quote: "It’s not about self-mastery; it’s about spirit mastery. Controlled by Christ, for the sake of others."
Conclusion
In a world that values indulgence over discipline, it’s easy to lose sight of the importance of self-control. But as young men and women, we are called to rise above the culture of laziness and self-centeredness. By following the example of Christ and living with self-control, we can make a lasting impact on those around us. Let us encourage one another, model godly living, and embody a disciplined life that honors God and reflects His love to the world.